A bit shaky, but I'm back. I hope.

I'm bypassing the mountain of painful drafts and getting back to my blog and the rest of my social networks with tentative optimism. 

The last 7 months have been a rough ride. Grief can be ugly. Especially when it keeps the company of depression. I have been in a dark, dark place. But I'm not ready to talk about that. What I do want to do, is nurture this sliver of light... this irredescent thread of hope I've happened upon; and strengthen it. It's fine and almost invisible, but I am holding on for dear life. If I'm right, by giving *this* all of my will, rather than just allowing the darkness to swallow me, I will climb out. I will come back to where I need to be. 

I don't need to know all the answers... I just need to believe I'm getting closer to fine. 

For those of you that have supported and encouraged me... I can't thank you enough. This song - especially the first verse up to the bridge - is for you. Your friendship and concern have kept me boyant. I'm sorry I haven't been able to reciprocate. I will soon. I will soon. I love you. 

Closer To Fine - Indigo Girls

I'm trying to tell you something about my life
Maybe give me insight between black and white
The best thing you've ever done for me
Is to help me take my life less seriously, it's only life after all
Well darkness has a hunger that's insatiable
And lightness has a call that's hard to hear
I wrap my fear around me like a blanket
I sailed my ship of safety till I sank it, I'm crawling on your shores. 

I went to the doctor, I went to the mountains
I looked to the children, I drank from the fountains
There's more than one answer to these questions
pointing me in crooked line
The less I seek my source for some definitive
The closer I am to fine. 

I went to see the doctor of philosophy
With a poster of Rasputin and a beard down to his knee
He never did marry or see a B-grade movie
He graded my performance, he said he could see through me
I spent four years prostrate to the higher mind, got my paper
And I was free. 

I went to the doctor, I went to the mountains
I looked to the children, I drank from the fountains
There's more than one answer to these questions
pointing me in crooked line
The less I seek my source for some definitive
The closer I am to fine. 

I stopped by the bar at 3 a.m.
To seek solace in a bottle, or possibly a friend
I woke up with a headache like my head against a board
Twice as cloudy as I'd been the night before
and I went in seeking clarity. 

I went to the doctor, I went to the mountains
I looked to the children, I drank from the fountains
We go to the doctor, we go to the mountains
We look to the children, we drink from the fountains

We go to the bible, we go through the workout
We read up on revival and we stand up for the lookout
There's more than one answer to these questions
pointing me in a crooked line
The less I seek my source for some definitive
The closer I am to fine
The closer I am to fine
The closer I am to fine